Private Household Staff Recruitment
Merlo Private Staffing provides discreet, bespoke private household staff recruitment for Royal Families, UHNW individuals, private principals and estates worldwide. We identify experienced household professionals whose background, service standards, discretion and cultural fit align with each household’s lifestyle, values and expectations. Every search is highly personalised, with a focus on professionalism, trust and long-term compatibility.
Our Selection Approach
We assess not only professional experience, but how each candidate will operate within the specific household environment — its routines, culture, travel requirements, service standards and existing team.
Household Culture
Understanding the rhythms, expectations and service style of the residence.
Service Standards
Assessing practical capability, presentation and the level of service required.
Discretion & Judgement
Evaluating confidentiality, boundaries and calm decision-making in private environments.
Long-Term Compatibility
Looking beyond the CV to values, communication style and sustainable fit.
Discretion
Confidential communication and a highly selective process designed for sensitive private environments.
Precision
Every search is tailored to the principal, operational structure, service standards and cultural requirements.
Long-Term Fit
We focus on professional capability, values alignment and sustainable long-term compatibility.
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